MtFs Luvin FtMs?!?!??!

topic posted Wed, June 30, 2004 - 11:30 AM by  Molly
Hi all:

After attending this last weekend's Tranny pride rally, I was really struck by just how hot so many FtMs are! But I'm wondering how FtMs would feel about dating a MtF???
Peace
Molly
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Molly
SF Bay Area
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    Wed, June 30, 2004 - 4:08 PM
    wouldnt that be nice :) but ive never really seen any that showed an interest. it can be so confusing even for a t person. im m-f but could pass for f-m i guess. i dont know i guess bottom line is that it IS about what parts ya got more so than whats in your head or heart. i think. maybe. although im often wrong.

    niqui
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    Wed, July 7, 2004 - 12:38 PM
    Well, I can only speak for myself, but I am ftm and I like mtfs.

    Just bear in mind that some ftms are coming from a background where they (I) just sit and look pretty and wait for someone to approach them. It can be very hard to make the first move sometimes, especially feeling that most people who are into men really want a penis attached to said man.

    Liam
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      Wed, July 7, 2004 - 7:38 PM
      theres that word again, penis, id love a man without a penis, wait that would be a woman, or rather a man who used to be a woman, yeah, thats the ticket. i think it would be great to date a man that doesnt have that thing always pokin me in the leg saying me me me me.

      ive never really met any ftm folks that seem interested in mtfs.

      niqui
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      Sun, July 10, 2005 - 8:04 AM
      well said Liam..I dated an FTM man for 2 years in New Mexico and this was an issue he faced although between us it was never an issue. Honestly..warmed,high-quality silicon strapon cock....what is the difference(none that I can feel),except of course..it can be any size and last all night,Lol. ;)
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    Sun, July 10, 2005 - 10:51 AM
    well I'm ftm now but I wasn't when I first started dating my wife who is post-op MTF. I didn't start dating her because she was mtf or trans but because she is a hot butch smart punk.

    I think the bigger issue for me wouldn't be pre or post or no op but whether they were attractive to me.
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    Thu, August 18, 2005 - 10:20 AM
    sounds like people haven't seen Southern Comfort which features such a couple. I know a couple in LA who are MtF and FtM and they've been together as long as I can remember.

    Personally, I'm a transman and I've dated people of all genders. GQ woman, transwoman, female born women, men, boys, bois, femme, butch, MtF, FtM, intersexed, and probably some gender I haven't thought of. I've found that for me, it works based on many individual things not on what gender someone is.

    Short answer, yes it happens.

    Sean
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    Fri, October 13, 2006 - 1:32 PM
    Just thought this was a good thread topic that deserved to be re-activated. :)
    I know quite a few MTF-FTM couples. As another member said here, I too like the idea of "keeping it in the family".
    I've dated all sorts of people, but ideally, think I'd prefer to be with a compatible MTF person. :)
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    Fri, June 22, 2007 - 10:10 PM
    Regardless of what I consider myself, I'm sure that there are plenty of people out there who would agree with me that FtM, MtF, androgyn, intersexed, pre-op, post-op, no-op, etc... it's all just details. I care about who a person is, not what body they're in. So we're out there... MtFs, FtMs etc who are fine dating the reverse :)
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      Sat, June 23, 2007 - 1:48 PM
      "...FtM, MtF, androgyn, intersexed, pre-op, post-op, no-op, etc... it's all just details."


      ;)
      Yeah, but remember, "details" can be very important. I too care more about the person than the body (gym clone types do nothing for me, and I'll often tend to pass them up in favor of someone who looks "more interesting", at least to me). BUT, I'm not gonna lie and say it's all the same, bodies don't matter at all to me, etc. They do.
      Example-- pre-op, non-op, post-op.....it does matter.
      I realize I'm setting myself up to be judged/slammed etc for saying that (it's ok, I'm a big boy and I can take the heat), but I do have my preferences. Likewise, I don't tend to take it personally when someone else says "I don't date FTMs" or--- a common one with MTFs--- "I wouldn't date a short man--- I won't go out with anyone under 6 ft--- I won't date anyone shorter than I am". That's ok, doesn't bother me, seems reasonable (if that's their preference).
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        Sat, June 23, 2007 - 3:12 PM
        Oh I'm well aware... I just meant that it's all just detail *to people who have the same mindset as what I was describing*. Sorry if I wasn't very clear ;)
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    Fri, December 21, 2007 - 12:30 PM
    i don't have any particular "gender" preference - this sounds strange to some folks' ears coming from a tranny, but for me...

    ...parts is parts

    it's really all about the person for me. i've never actually been involved with a transman, but then again i live in pittsburgh and i've only ever met three *shrug* i won't sit here and say that i don't have completely shallow kinds of things that i'm attracted to, but genitalia just ain't one of 'em

    of course, it could just be a question of the circles i flap around in. i'm typically the only tranny of any flavor around, so it really hasn't come up.
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    Re: MtFs Luvin FtMs?!?!??!

    Wed, July 9, 2008 - 9:26 PM
    I'm a non-op ftm and someone whom I've been conversing with for many years and whom I have become quite serious with is a pre-op mtf.

    Eli

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